Ursula Wania

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Desperate answer on a love life
Monday, 01 April 2013 18:45

Question -

breaking-upI found your website; I need a desperate answer on a love life question,

My ex-fiancé and I broke up after a long period for another women, he returned a year later said he made mistake, we have seen each other romantically, but he recently said he needs to sort his life out first, is this a cat and mouse game.

Thank you for taking the time to answer me back I truly appreciate your kindness
Thank you once again

Answer -

Initially this will look like it is a game of cat and mouse. Be careful not to lay down ultimatums as you could be causing the problem yourself. You seem to be the one getting impatient and wanting things to happen NOW. You have reason to feel this way as it seems you are the one giving of your time and of yourself, often bending to please him, and getting nothing in return. 

If you are patient enough, you will land up with him, although I do see that you will meet someone new. Someone that won't require as much effort, who will appreciate you for all you do.  Your guy might wake up when it is too late.

Sorry to everyone else who wrote last week, but this was the first one to come in and I only answer one question per week.

How does he feel about me?
Wednesday, 20 March 2013 08:49


Wednesday, 20 March, 2013


I’m so in love with this man but don’t know how he really feels about me - his name is X. Y. Please help me
Thanks soo much for your reply.


Hi C,
The cards do show that he does have feelings for you.  I get the feeling he doesn’t like being told how to do things or what he should do with his time.  He is very independent and very focused on his work. He also likes spending time alone doing his own thing. Luckily you like time on your own too at times, so if you can understand this and keep yourself busy, then the relationship can grow.

You need to be patient if you want this relationship to go further – and by patient I mean like the next 3 years. Don't force the issue.  You are a Pig in Chinese Astrology, and Pigs may generally have a challenging year during this year, which is the year of the Snake. So take it easy and rather go with the flow for now.

Left me for another.
Tuesday, 05 March 2013 13:20

Hi Ursula, last year around August/September I broke up with my boyfriend because he was after another gal while dating me, so he chose this girl over. Will we ever get back together? I still love him. Thank you.


Hi Z. Unfortunately the cards say that there will not be a reunion.  I do see that you are sad and that you miss him, and that you feel totally unhappy about the situation. This guy is a player and he is not going to stay in a relationship with a woman for long periods. You seriously are better off without him. Life has much better things in store for you.

In Chinese Astrology, you are a Tiger and he is a Monkey. If you want to see trouble - you put these two together. The universe has done you a favor and helped you avoid a lot of future problems.
Where my life is going?
Tuesday, 05 March 2013 12:49


I recently lost my husband. I was wondering where my life is going. If I will meet somebody new and where will the relationship end up. I recently met somebody from my past and wondered if there would be a relationship there.


You need to give this time. The man from the past is still going to be in your life for some time, although it won't be on a permanent basis. He needs to be here for now to help you heal and realise that you may still want love in your life again. The cards say that within the next two years you will meet a new man and and this will bring about a lot of change for you and new beginnings. This will result in a happy lasting relationship.  In the meantime, the cards also show that you have other issues that you need to deal with, these might be personal issues as well as family issues. It is like a time out period to let you realise a few things and to grow within. The cards show me that you might be having a hard time letting go of your husband and that is also another reason for delays. Happiness definitely comes and so does a move.
Feel excluded from his life with family.
Tuesday, 05 March 2013 12:19

I look forward to reading your blog everyday, Gosh you are so right on track.
I am divorced with a son, and I know this wonderful guy , in every sense of the word, going on 5 years this year October. I adore and love him very much.
The only problem is that he does not include me in his life with his family, has not taken me to meet his family, however i have been to his house and met them and I would like to know if there is any hope for commitment with him or should I move on. Thank you


Thank you for the compliment. The cards say that you must be patient. He does love you, but security is very important to this man. He needs to know for certain that he will be able to provide. He is also undecided about staying in South Africa and might be weighing his options.  He is very stubborn so it is not a good idea to push this guy into anything. You are born in the year of the Pig and even if he does want to marry this year, it is the year of the Snake, which is your opposition year, so it’s not a good idea. Things happen for a reason.  Hang in there. Go with the flow and don’t stir up any waves. If you can wait this out, you will have a happy relationship with him in the future. If you try and push to hard, you might push him away.
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